Friday, November 12, 2010

Day 12

Today I am thankful for...

my friends.

And to be more specific for this post:

my Bunco* friends.

I am thankful for this Motley Crue, rag-tag bunch that we are.

When my husband and I first moved back to my hometown (six-and-a-half years ago), it was a strange feeling for me. I was moving back to everything familiar, and yet, I didn't know too many people. Not very many of my friends still lived here, so it was the same typical story of moving to a new place and having to make new friends. A friend of mine invited me to her Bunco group, and the rest was history.

I didn't know any of these girls to start out (except for the one who invited me). We all lived on opposite sides of the city, and we all came from different walks of life, schools, churches, etc. But the one thing we did all have in common was God. And that was enough to gel us as a group. And over the course of six years, these girls have become more and more important to me, especially since they've walked through life with me. When times were rough -- my grandparents and dad passing away, all of the adoption drama, etc. -- these girls were such a stronghold for me. You name it -- we've walked through it as a group, supporting each other through so much good and the occasional bad. So now, six years later, we've got history. The type of history that truly binds friends together.

In that span of six years, our group has grown, shrunk (down to where we would meet and go to the movies if we didn't have enough people to play), and grown again. We now have a bit more order as far as scheduling a year in advance for who will be the hostess every month, but we still are nice and laidback, not requiring substitutes if you are gone (playing with ghosts), etc. The themes of each month seem to have gotten more and more creative as well, and we have so much fun together. We may only see each other once a month, but that is once a month I never want to miss.

I love my Bunco girls.

For your viewing pleasure, here are pics from last night's tea-party themed Bunco. Sooooooo much fun to get dressed up. And believe it or not, I think this was my very first real tea party to attend (other than the ones with stuffed animals as a kid, haha). There was great food, lots of teas to sample with special German sugar to add in, and we each got to take home our own cup and saucer. In fact, it was so much fun that half of us didn't even roll the dice and just enjoyed catching up on life, haha. What a fun evening!

*Side note: which is the true spelling -- Bunco or B-u-n-k-o? Drives me crazy every time I write it because I was always a spelling champ and not knowing the true way to spell something drives me nuts. The Internet search wasn't conclusive as I found it spelled both ways. Grr....


Pray~and~Wait said...

I don't know how to spell bunco/bunko either!!!! And it drives me nuts!!!!!! I usually use the "k", but I always second-guess it. And, I LOVE bunko! So glad you have a great group of women that continually play!

Lisa said...

that looks like so much fun Valerie! you look straight out of the 40's-50s so cute!

Happily Ever After said...

LOVE your tea party outfit. I so miss playing with you girls. It's hard to believe that it's been about five years since we played together, but I couldn't agree more - such a wonderful group of girls! Good times!

Baloney said...

I always use the "k" but I see it both ways.
Looks like a fun group!

Rhonda said...

That looks like so much fun! The hats and various scarves and pelts were awesome.

And I've only ever seen it with a "c", but both Pray~and~Wait and Baloney said "k", so go figure.

Heather said...

aw, its so nice to get to that place in grown up life where you have a core group of good girlfriends, lots of laughs and little drama!

Is it bad that I dont know what bunco is? Whatever it is, I'm sure its fun! :)